Your Question

I am tired, stressed, and never feel well - never quite myself anymore.  What can I do to get my energy back?  It seems like everyday there is always something or someone to pull me down, and I don’t feel like I should be living in such a state.

My Intuitive Answer

Yes, So many of us are feeling stressed these days.  If not because of our own career/finance/health reasons, we’re absorbing the energy surrounding us - picking up stress from others who are in serious trouble in some way.  Energetically, this is a difficult time and this is a difficult situation.  My suggestion is that you find more quiet time each day - I don’t mean alone time, but quiet time doing something you enjoy (gardening, painting, hiking, etc.).  An increased focus on positive things can help you create a more positive (therefore healthy) attitude.  Your physical body feels very stress - on the brink of having even more major health issues - please stop before that happens.  Don’t worry about it, face it and work toward more balance and peace of mind (which will create more peace of body which you need to regain your vitality).

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Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of June 29, 2009

A week filled with magic (if you can only let it shine through).  So many people don’t believe in those magic moments, but they do exist if you’re willing to give them a chance.  Let yourself feel vulnerable, be open to new experiences and see what happens.  Just have fun this week.  You may find it difficult to concentrate on work and difficult tasks.  Just go with the flow as much as you can.  Be soft and receptive - open your heart center and smile.

Keep life simple.  Find the rhythm of your days and invite in more of the calm moments.  Let life actually feel fresh and new.  In the joy of the moment, fear will disappear, balance will appear.

Relationships

Your heart center will be wide open this week.  That can be wonderful or devastating.  You must remember that your heart center is open so you don’t accidentally absorb the painful emotions of others.  Take responsibility for only your own feelings. 

Finances

Reorganize your finances this week.  Take a little extra time cleaning out desk drawers or that car seat filled with mail and receipts - important to organize yourself and your financial world this week.  Once organized, you’ll have a better understanding of what you can (or need) to do right away.

Share Your Experience

Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of June 22, 2009

Everyone may be a bit over-sensitive this week.  Try to take care of yourself and those closest to you without stepping on toes.  In other words, think before you speak or act.  Make an extra effort to examine and release your fears this week.  What are you the most fearful of?  Is the fear legitimate?  What can you do to release/avoid it?  While you think about fear in your life remember that what you fear most is drawn to you - what you resist, will persist.  All those old sayings have a lot of truth, particularly the ones about fear - fear is a powerful, self-limiting emotion that needs to be addressed and it is possible to create a healthier energy flow when you face your fear and realize you can strengthen your resolve.

As you learn new ways to nurture yourself - when you develop enough self-respect to put yourself first, you can more easily feel in control of your life (and less depressed and fearful).  Try to release negative emotions.  Stop trying to rigidly control your days - relax into a stronger you.

Relationships

If jealousy rears its head this week, dismiss it quickly.  Whether you’re feeling jealous of someone else or they of you, push it away.  Jealousy has no positive energy attached.  It’s unnecessary and drains energy very quickly. 

Finances

Help/support others this week with no reward expected.  Give of your time and your resources at every opportunity.  You may not win the lottery this week, but you can gain much positive energy flow by helping out.

Share Your Experience

Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of June 15, 2009

Every week this month must go back to the word “power” - a time of recognizing and enhancing your own personal power in every aspect of your life.  If you can learn to better understand and focus your own power, life will take a major turn for the better very quickly.  You must, however, allow your respect for yourself to be at the top of your list each and every day.  By walking your talk - seriously, following through on all your plans each day, you can change your life dramatically in a very short time. 

Take some extra time this week to examine your own body language - what is your natural (or unnatural) body posture during the day?  In the evening?  With others?  How does your body respond to certain situations?  It’s so easy for your body to send you a message and so difficult to remember to hear that message.  Just pay close attention.

Relationships

Don’t dump your woes on anyone this week.  Keep your deeply personal problems to yourself - you can be open and honest, but don’t dwell on irresolvable issues. 

Finances

Try to avoid major financial changes this week.  Not a good week for major decisions that impact your budget and your financial well being.   Just get through the week without over spending.

Share Your Experience

Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of June 8, 2009

Happy Birthday (June 8th) to my son Matt.  Enjoy your day.  If it’s not your birthday this week, try to find time for a bit of personal reflection.  A good time to overcome life’s obstacles and move forward.  Honor your feelings and let yourself explore the circle of life - the circle of your life. Where have you been and where are you going?  Take some extra time to ground yourself to Mother Earth.   Once you get off balance, it’s a difficult task, but it can be done.  Stop, take some deep breaths, and remind yourself that you’re a powerful being.  Place your feet firmly on the Earth in a power stance and refuse to be thrown off balance by life’s little (or big) irritants.  This is a very good time for new growth and finding alternatives to life’s current frustrating issues.

Relationships

What are your relationship habits?  Do you tend to be the person in control or the person controlled?  Do you need/demand equality in every relationship?  Every person approaches relationships with a very personal need and a very powerful attitude even if it’s difficult to see sometimes.  Evaluate your habits and decide what you’ll need to change to create a healthier relationship (new or old). 

Finances

While you’re in that personal power stance mentioned above, let it carry over into your financial world.  Refuse to give in to fear and refuse to sit back and not do your best.  Is it time for a raise or a new position?  If so, go ask for it now.  If you plan to change careers (even in today’s economy), again, go for it now.

Share Your Experience

Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of June 1, 2009

Do you believe in a divine plan for your life?  Not a pre-destined plan, but something over and above what we experience each day as human beings.  I believe there is guidance for us all - all you need to do is tap into that guidance/love/support and life can be more manageable.  I guess the bottom line is having some more faith and trust in yourself and your ability to create a healthier, more productive, and more balanced life.  Learning to trust is much more complicated than you may think.  So many times we’re either trusting and trustworthy or not.  But you can learn to trust yourself and others, drawing those people into your life who bring trust.  Bottom line, just consider trust this week. 

This week is also a time to be playful - as I suggest periodically, buy a coloring book and crayons and get busy.  Get outside and play a game with your child, dog, or sign up for an adult “game” of some sort.  Just have fun.  The adventure of discovery - make your life an adventure at every turn.

Relationships

Let your own joy inside spill over to those around you.  Be the one to create some FUN this week.  Plan a party or call old friends to laugh and joke about old times (while you create good new times).  Whatever you do, try to relax and not take on heavy emotional issues this week. 

Finances

If we hope to create a stronger economy in this country and in the world, we must work toward releasing the fear that permeates at the moment.  We need to take steps to renew our own financial growth - stop being afraid.  I know this jobless time can’t be taken lightly, but a more positive energy flow will make a difference.

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Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Your Question

I hope that you are well, and enjoying Spring.  This time of year is so lovely.  I have written to you over the years and my question is:  Why is it that Spirits come to me, and I don’t know what it is they want from me or what they wish for me to know?  I have picked up energies around me from a young age - I feel someone with me and I ask what they want, etc., but I can’t understand.

These spirits must come to me for a reason.  I have been on my spiritual path for many years.  Sometime I get signs like a dark shadow at the foot of my bed - male, about six feet tall.  When I see this, I’m not afraid, but I know someone will pass.  I don’t know who until after it happens.  What am I supposed to do with these messages?  I love my gift.  Someone asked me if I was a psychic or medium and I had to say I don’t know.  I don’t see myself as a psychic.  I just read energies and pick up energy from spirits.  I feel I am growing to a higher level.  Thank you for taking the time to read this.

My Intuitive Answer

Yes, spring is beautiful.  Here in Central Virginia it’s especially gorgeous with the flowers and trees blooming.

I know we’ve discussed this issue before - sometimes you have to realize that spirits may visit without a specific message.  Frustrating, I know.  Even when you sense a spirit around you, don’t try too hard to understand the message, if you’re meant to know, it will become very clear.

I have always seen the “dark man” - usually when I’m awake, driving sometimes, and I know that someone will be ill or die.  Rarely do I know who it is either.  All I do is try to relax, release the heavy energy and send love and light out from my own energy to everyone in need.  Make it a positive experience when you can. 

You are called psychic in this world when you read energies and have contact with spirits - no need to question that.  Because you have this ability, doesn’t mean you need to read others though - you must first always remember to take care of yourself and your own growth needs.

Followup Comment

Question:   Thank you so much.  I guess I am over thinking it all.  I will do what you said, and I will take care of myself.  I do know I feel down at times.  I know it’s from others’ energies that I pick up.  I say that if feelings aren’t mine, please send them back to the person.    Answer:  Since I work as an empath, I pick up emotions from others (which I don’t absorb).  However, I don’t send them back to the person, I try to clear the person’s energy if possible and send the energies out into the Universe to do no harm.  As long as you’re sending loving energy all around, you’re doing fine.

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If you have a related experience you wish share, please do so by leaving a comment here on the blog, and If you have a question, please send it to me by visiting the Intuitive Advice Column on my website.

Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of May 25, 2009

May’s heavy energy has certainly opened up some energy spaces for everyone.  Let there be a spiritual unfolding in your life.  Sound weird and out of sight?  Doesn’t have to be.  Just look outside yourself, drop your negative opinions, and accept the fact that you’ve changed (and you have).  Everyone changes with life experience and life experience happens everyday - not in those “light bulb” moments we wait for.  Doubt in our own growth is acceptable and expected, but try to release it.  Accept your challenges, don’t judge yourself and all will move forward right on your life schedule.  Try to have some faith in that.  Live in the moment, release that moment, and welcome change and growth.  Remember that life has its ups and downs.  You will be well; you will be sick.  You will be happy; you will be sad.  You will feel excitement; you will be calm.  Join in the flow and enjoy the ride.

Relationships

If you’ve released personal relationships that no longer fit into your life (with gentleness and care), now is a good time to find a new love.  You don’t go out and literally find it, it comes to you when you’re open.  So be open, aware, and love yourself first. 

Finances

A good week for financial planning.  Look over all you’ve done in the past six months and re-evaluate when you need to.  You can learn much if you’ll accept your successes and failures in your financial world.  Try to see the failures as lessons learned (difficult I know).  Know that, in balance, your financial world will be stronger soon.

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Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Psychic Guidance: Week of May 18, 2009

A lot of “don’t” comes up in this week’s energy such as:  Don’t procrastinate; don’t be wasteful (of energy or “stuff”); don’t be fearful; don’t sacrifice yourself for another; don’t give up your power.  Now to the “DO’S”:  Do things you’ve put off; be aware of your environment; trust; share; be your own powerful self.  If you can honor your gifts (yes, you have many), you’ll find a message hidden there from your higher self.  The key to living a powerful, growth-filled life, is to become more self-aware each day.  If you’ve neglected your growth, it’s not too late, start today to do something everyday to touch your core - to get to know your inner self more intimately.

Relationships

Don’t talk, listen.  If you can keep your mouth on OFF and your heart on ON, much can be learned this week. 

Finances

If you have felt powerless in your financial arena, face your challenges now and get out of any situation that is not working for you.  Find a new job, sell or buy a home, etc.  Do something  powerful this week.

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Psychic guidance resonates differently with everyone.  Let me know how this week’s guidance touched you and your spiritual growth by leaving a comment here or by emailing me from the Spirits Evolving website.

Lee

Your Question

The question is a little touchy feely and I sure hope you can help.  I have a great relationship with my parents, but here lately they seem obsessed with Revelations from the King James Bible (Southern Baptists).  When I use the term obsessed, that is not an exaggeration by any means.  They’ve been meeting with a group which includes their preacher to discuss Revelations.  Of course, since they raised me, I was raised Southern Baptist.  Well, now that I’m an adult, I don’t share their beliefs any longer.  I have my own beliefs which include reincarnation, belief in Buddhism practices, etc.   I’ve tried to talk to them in the past about my views but even for me to begin speaking of these things creates a scene straight out of a nightmare.  My father is a wonderful man but also one of the most narrow minded I’ve ever known.  To him, everyone’s belief in something other than his own is wrong and they will burn in Hell.  Back to the point, I love my parents dearly and have a great relationship with them, but it’s gotten to the point that whenever we have a conversation, it always, and I mean every single time, turns into a religious discussion.  It seems as though it’s ALL they can talk about.  I don’t mind having discussions with them on any subject, especially one that is so important to them, but to only talk about one topic and try so hard to shove it down another’s throat, is very disturbing to me.  How do I get them to stop or at least take a breather?  Your input would be so valuable to me.

My Intuitive Answer

This is a difficult situation and one I understand completely.  I can sense your love for your parents, and I know you wish there was more you could do to have a conversation with them without having it return to religion (their beliefs vs. your beliefs).  I can assure you that they aren’t going to change in the near future (maybe not at all), and all you can do is accept that.  They love you and need to learn to respect you more as the loving individual that you are.  All I feel you can do is refuse to discuss religious issues with them - any issues, anytime, your views or theirs.  You have to be honest (maybe blunt) with them and tell them you will not discuss any religious topics with them.  You have to show them you mean it by changing the subject or simply ending any conversation that moves into that realm.  It won’t be easy, but it’s the only way to keep the relationship from deteriorating.  You’re a very compassionate person - continue to try to find a stable place for your relationship.

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If you have a related experience you wish share, please do so by leaving a comment here on the blog, and If you have a question, please send it to me by visiting the Intuitive Advice Column on my website.

Lee